Wendy Richard was one of those stars of TV who inspired nothing but affection. Whether as the dollybird Miss Brahms in Are you being served? To the sometimes forbidding matriarch Pauline Fowler in Eastenders, she one of those people that everyone liked, probably because she seemed so down to earth.
At her funeral this week, at her request, she included something unusual in the order of service: a recipe. ‘Wendy’s Chilli Con Carne’ gets a whole page in the booklet. You can imagine people round at Wendy’s house, tucking in to huge portions (for this is not a recipe for dieters), having a drink and a laughing a lot. That’s presumably why she included it: it was famous among her friends.

It’s a bit of an eccentric recipe, obviously honed and tweaked over the years. There’s tarragon vinegar and chocolate too. It’s not a very hot chilli. I can imagine chilli purists (mostly boys) not being very impressed. But that’s hardly the point. Food has the power to evoke such memories. It can immediately transport you back to a particular time or place. And that is why, I suppose, Wendy Richard shared this recipe with her friends at her funeral. They will make it and think of her. Which is rather touching.


